UBrenda Ngxoli udalula ukukhashelwa nokuhlukunyezwa wumndeni wakhe

Umlingisi wodumo waseNingizimu Afrika, uBrenda Ngxoli, useveze zonke izindaba zomndeni wakhe ezinkundleni zokuxhumana ekhala ngokuhlukunyezwa ngokomzimba nangokwezimali ngunina nodadewabo. Lokhu kwenzeka nje ngemva kwenyanga eveze konke mayelana namadrama omndeni wakhe kuPodcast and Chill with MacG.

UBrenda wengeze ngokuthi sekuphele cishe iminyaka emibili engenakhaya. “Kungani kumele ngibashiyele bonke ukuze bajabule? Nithi mandiyephi (kumele ngiyephi), akufani nokuthi uzongihlalisa. Kungani kumele umgilwa enze icebo basale bodwa abenzi bobubi? Kwaze kwabuhlungu kum (lokhu kubuhlungu),” engeza. “Okokugcina uma udadewethu ezongithathela izinto zami kumele azenze ngesikhathi sabantu… Lumka uhlezi uthi asingene kwabezindaba, nansi ke Sisi, ake ngikuxoxele ngodumo lwami. ” UBrenda uthe ngeke esawuvala umlomo ngenxa yobuqotho bomndeni wakhe. “Kodwa mina engikwenzayo nje ngidala indawo ephephile yemilingo engakhuli futhi engasilaphi njengomndeni. Sengiqedile ukuvala izibazi zami ngenxa yengane yami. Kwangathi ayazi ukuthi noma sekudlule isikhashana nje.” umama wakhuluma,” kuphetha yena.

UBrenda uke wachaza ukuthi wenze kanjani cishe konke okusemandleni akhe ukulungisa isimo emndenini wakhe kodwa wehluleka. “Ngangiwunikeza wonke umndeni wami umholo wami. Ngangiwusebenzela kanzima, baze bangibizele osonhlalakahle,” kusho yena. “Mina nomndeni wami asizwani.” Uthe wathenga imfuyo, umndeni wakhe wagcina ukuyidayisa wasala engenalutho. Wahlushwa intela emnyama ngemuva kokwakha umuzi wakubo. “Ngisebenze kanzima kodwa anginazo izimvu nezimbuzi zami. Bangisongela ngokungiyisa emaphepheni.”

Udadewabo kaBrenda, uLumka uthe, “Lolu wudaba lomndeni, ngeke nginandise ngalo emphakathini. UBrenda wenqabile ukwenaba kabanzi ngalolu daba. “Ngishilo engikushilo, iqiniso lami lelo.”