Ucele ukungcwatshwa ngosuku lezithandani, uthisha uzibulele ngemuva kokwaliwa

Uthisha oneminyaka engu-27 ubudala uthathe impilo yakhe ngemuva kokwaliwa, ucela ukungcwatshwa ngusuku lwe-Valentines eKenya. Esehlakalweni esibuhlungu sangoLwesithathu, ngomhlaka-7 Febhuwari, uthisha osemncane wase-Embu County, eKenya, uqome ukuphetha kabuhlungu impilo yakhe ngemuva kokulahlwa yintombi yakhe yakudala.

Le ndoda eneminyaka engu-27 ubudala ishiye incwadi ebuhlungu, izwakalisa ukungakwazi kwayo ukubona uthando lwayo luyaphambili nomunye umuntu, okuholele ekutheni ithathe isinqumo esibuhlungu sokuzibulala.

Encwadini yokuvalelisa ngokomzwelo, uthisha osemusha ucele ukubekwa endaweni yakhe yokugcina ngoSuku lweValentine, ngoFebhuwari 14, olukhombisa usuku lothando. Ukwengeza, ushiye imininingwane yokuxhumana nentombi yakhe yangaphambili, egcizelela ukuthi kufanele kube nguyena ozoletha i-eulogy yakhe.

Uthisha oshonile, okungakadalulwa ukuthi ungubani, ujube izihlobo zakhe ukuthi ziphenye ukuthi zingaba yini izingane ebudlelwaneni baphambilini, ngethemba lokuthi zingahlomula emafeni akhe.

Umthwalo wemfanelo wokuhlela umcimbi wokungcwaba wawusemalungwini amabili omhlangano wesifunda, anikezwa iziqondiso ezicacile zokuba ahlanganise nesithombe esithile esimisweni somngcwabo.

Esambulweni esibuhlungu esibhalwe encwadini yokuzibulala, uthisha udalule ukuthi usefinyelele kubantu abangu-17 efuna usizo nokwesekwa mayelana nobudlelwano bakhe obunezinkathazo, kodwa ngeshwa akekho noyedwa owelule indlebe noma owanika iseluleko. Ezwakalisa ukuzisola ngemizamo engaphumelelanga yokubuyisana nentombi yakhe yakudala, uthe, “Ngimncengile (owayeyintombi) kodwa konke kulele ezindlebeni ezingezwa.”

Izintatheli zendawo ziqinisekise isigameko ngokuvakashela indawo yokuhlala lapho kwenzeke khona isigameko esibuhlungu, zanikeza isiqinisekiso kwabase-Kenyans.co.ke. Incwadi yaphetha ngokunxusa ukuthula: “Nginqume ukuphumula ngokuthula. Sengizame ngazo zonke izindlela, kodwa kwaba yize.”

Njengoba ochwepheshe bezempilo yengqondo begcizelela ukubaluleka kokufunela usizo kubantu ababhekene nezinkinga ezingokomzwelo, abeluleki, abezempilo kanye nezazi zokusebenza kwengqondo batusa ukuthi bazame ukuthola ukwesekwa. Inombolo yamahhala yaseKenya ye-Red Cross, 1199, iyatholakala kulabo abadinga usizo.

Isigameko esidabukisayo sisebenza njengesikhumbuzo esidabukisayo sokubaluleka kokuqwashisa ngempilo yengqondo kanye nesidingo sokukhuthaza imiphakathi esekelayo ukuze kubhekwane nezinselele ezingokomzwelo.